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Identity, Contact & Application

This questionnaire is not consent to sexual activity. Interests, preferences, experience, and activity answers describe what you may be open to being considered for. They do not create consent, entitlement, an obligation to participate, or a guarantee of invitation. Consent must still be obtained and respected in the moment.

FetLife Handle *We use FetLife for contact, screening, and determining active status. If we cannot match you to your FetLife account, we cannot process this application.

Preferred Event Name (if different)

Gender / identity - describe yourself in your own words *Use the words that best describe your gender or identity.

Birth Date *

Day

Month

Year

Birth Date is canonical; age is derived. OGB membership and attendance are limited to adults age 19 and older.

Contact email *Use a privacy-focused email account if you prefer.

Your tobacco / nicotine use *NoOccasionallyRegularly

Your cannabis use *NoOccasionallyRegularly

Your other recreational drug use *NoOccasionallyRegularly

Your alcohol use *NoOccasionallyRegularly

Including you, how many people are included in this application? *Enter 1 if you are applying on your own. Each person must submit their own application.

If you are applying with anyone else, give their FetLife handle(s) or event name(s): *OGB will verify member connections through the other person's own application or directly with them. Identifying someone here does not create or imply any relationship, consent, or agreement on their behalf.

1. Experience & Interest in OGB

1a. Have you previously participated as one of several partners in a group-sex or multi-partner experience centred on one person? *NoYes, onceYes, more than once

1b. How much experience have you had in group-sex or multi-partner sexual settings? *None1-2 occasions3-5 occasions6-10 occasionsMore than 10 occasions

1c. How would you describe your overall experience with negotiated kink, BDSM, fetish, or structured sexual play? *NoneLimited / occasionalModerateSubstantialSpecific activity experience is recorded later.

1d. If group play is new to you, is there anything you want us to explain before your first event?

2. What interests you about participating in OGB? *

3a. If Other, please describe:

2. Consent, Conduct & Suitability

4. Do you understand and agree that every sexual or physical interaction at an OGB event requires contemporaneous consent from the people involved? *Yes - I understand and agreeNoAn invitation, match, event plan, questionnaire answer, prior activity, or another person's consent cannot substitute for consent in the moment.

5. During an event, how would you monitor whether a Receiver or another participant remains comfortable and consenting, particularly if they become quieter, less responsive, or the activity changes? *

6. If a Receiver, host, or organiser told you to stop an activity, step away, or leave the play area, how would you respond? *

7. Are you open to feedback or redirection from a Receiver, host, or organiser? *YesNo

8. Have you ever been removed, banned, or asked not to return to a sexual, kink, lifestyle, or comparable private event? *YesNo

8a. If Yes, briefly explain: *

9. Can you accept that you may be invited but ultimately have little or no sexual participation? *YesNo

10. If you saw another participant ignoring a boundary, pushing past hesitation, or continuing after consent became unclear, what would you do? *

3. Sexual Health & Barriers

11. Are you currently experiencing any symptoms that could indicate a sexually transmitted infection? *NoYesUnsureTime-sensitive and subject to event-current reconfirmation.

12. When was your most recent STI screening? *Month/year or approximate date is sufficient.

13. If an event requires recent testing, are you willing to meet that requirement before attending? *YesNoI would need to know the requirement first

14. What testing standard, if any, do you generally expect from other participants? *No particular requirementRecent testing requiredPrefer regular testingDepends on the activitiesDiscuss with OGB

14a. If you have a preferred testing standard, describe it:

15. Are you willing to follow event-specific barrier requirements? *YesNoThis may include condoms, oral barriers, gloves, and toy-covering or cleaning requirements.

16. Do you agree to arrive clean and maintain reasonable personal hygiene appropriate to the planned activities? *YesNo

17. Which barrier practices do you generally prefer for your own participation?Condom for vaginal penetrationCondom for anal penetrationBarrier for oral sexGloves for manual / anal playNo shared toys unless cleaned / coveredCondomless where mutually agreedDepends on Receiver and eventOther

17a. If Other, please describe:

4. Your Physical Profile

These details are used only when a Receiver has asked OGB to consider them for matching.

19. Height - which unit would you like to use? *Feet and inchesCentimetres

19a. Feet *Whole feet.

19b. Inches *Use 0-11.

19c. Centimetres *Whole centimetres.

21. Do you have a penis? *YesNoPrefer not to answer

21a. Tell us about your penis length. *SmallAverageLarge8"+

21b. Tell us about your penis girth. *SlimAverageWideThicc

21c. Are you circumcised? *YesNo

5. Your Play Style

22a. If Other, please describe:

23. How comfortable are you following a Receiver's or host's direction and an agreed event structure? *Very comfortableComfortableDepends on the eventI generally prefer spontaneityNot for me

24. In your own words, what role, energy, or type of participation generally suits you at an OGB event?

6. Other People's Substance Use

Tell us whether somebody else using these substances would affect whether you would want to play with them.

18a. Would somebody else smoking or using tobacco affect whether you would want to play with them? *No preferenceIt would bother meDepends / discuss

18b. Would somebody else drinking alcohol affect whether you would want to play with them? *No preferenceIt would bother meDepends / discuss

18c. Would somebody else using cannabis or other recreational drugs affect whether you would want to play with them? *No preferenceCannabis would bother meOther recreational drug use would bother meEither would bother meDepends / discuss

7. Activities a Receiver Might Ask For

For each activity, tell us whether you would generally be open to it if a Receiver wanted it. Choose Yes, Maybe, or Not for me. These answers are for matching only and are not consent for any event.

Kissing / making out *YesMaybeNot for me

Giving massage / sensual touch *YesMaybeNot for me

Applying sensation play *YesMaybeNot for me

Applying temperature play *YesMaybeNot for me

Food play *YesMaybeNot for me

Giving oral sex *YesMaybeNot for me

Receiving oral sex *YesMaybeNot for me

Manual stimulation - giving *YesMaybeNot for me

Manual stimulation - receiving *YesMaybeNot for me

Vaginal penetration - penetrating *YesMaybeNot for me

Vaginal penetration - receiving *YesMaybeNot for me

Anal play / penetration - penetrating *YesMaybeNot for me

Anal play / penetration - receiving *YesMaybeNot for me

Using toys on another person *YesMaybeNot for me

Having toys used on you *YesMaybeNot for me

Touching / stimulating the Receiver together with other Givers *YesMaybeNot for me

Taking a turn penetrating the Receiver in a line / train *YesMaybeNot for me

Giving the Receiver oral while another Giver penetrates them *YesMaybeNot for me

Penetrating the Receiver while another Giver gives them oral *YesMaybeNot for me

Taking part in vaginal + anal double penetration *YesMaybeNot for me

Taking part in double vaginal penetration *YesMaybeNot for me

Taking part in double anal penetration *YesMaybeNot for me

Participating as a Giver to make the Receiver Airtight *YesMaybeNot for me

Watching others play *YesMaybeNot for me

7. Activities a Receiver Might Ask For - continued

Being watched / exhibitionism *YesMaybeNot for me

Taking control / directing pace *YesMaybeNot for me

Being controlled / directed *YesMaybeNot for me

Participating in the Receiver's role-play / fantasy scenario *YesMaybeNot for me

Applying restraint / bondage *YesMaybeNot for me

Receiving restraint / bondage *YesMaybeNot for me

Giving impact play *YesMaybeNot for me

Receiving impact play *YesMaybeNot for me

Hair-pulling *YesMaybeNot for me

Rough play *YesMaybeNot for me

Dominant / top role *YesMaybeNot for me

Submissive / bottom role *YesMaybeNot for me

Dirty talk / verbal direction *YesMaybeNot for me

Praise / adoration *YesMaybeNot for me

Giving degradation / humiliation *YesMaybeNot for me

Receiving degradation / humiliation *YesMaybeNot for me

Blindfolding or restricting a Receiver's senses *YesMaybeNot for me

Costumes / uniforms *YesMaybeNot for me

Cum play / bukkake / blowbang *YesMaybeNot for me

Group masturbation *YesMaybeNot for me

Watersports - Giving *YesMaybeNot for me

Watersports - Receiving *YesMaybeNot for me

CNC Scene *YesMaybeNot for me

Other kink / fetish activity *YesMaybeNot for me

25. If a Receiver has a kink, fetish, or fantasy scene in mind, are you open to OGB approaching you about taking part? *YesNoBeing approached does not mean you have to agree. The scene and your role would be discussed with you first.

8. Giver-to-Giver Contact & Baseline Boundaries

Only an affirmative sexual-interaction response opens the detailed Giver-to-Giver questions.

26. What level of physical interaction with other Givers are you generally comfortable being considered for at an OGB event? *Sexual interaction with one or more other Givers may be of interest, subject to consent in the momentIncidental / non-sexual physical contact is fineFunctional / incidental contact onlyI prefer no physical contact with other GiversDepends / discuss with me

26a. Who might that potentially include? Select all that apply.MenWomenNon-binary / gender-diverse peopleIt depends on the person or eventOther / self-describeFor matching purposes only. This does not indicate consent to interaction with any particular person.

26c. Are there any limits or qualifications OGB should know about when considering Giver-to-Giver interaction for you?

Would you be willing to participate sexually as a Giver in an OGB event centred on a Receiver of the same sex as you? *Yes - I would be willing to participate sexually, subject to compatibility, boundaries and mutual consent.Maybe - I would consider it depending on the Receiver, activities and event.No - I would not be willing to participate sexually with a same-sex Receiver.

27a. Are there any other activities or types of play that are completely off-limits for you?This is a baseline profile. Event-specific boundaries can always be narrower.

28. Are there activities you marked Open or Discuss that have important conditions, limits, or qualifications OGB should know when considering you for an event?Not for me in the Activity Profile already records activity-specific baseline exclusions.

9. Media / Recording Preference

Photography and recording are not sexual activities. This section records only whether OGB may approach you about media participation. Any actual photography or recording requires separate, express permission under the applicable OGB media rules.

29. May OGB approach you about being photographed or filmed at an event where OGB-authorised media is contemplated? *Yes - you may ask meNoDepends on the event - discuss with me

29a. If you selected Yes or Depends, are there any standing limits OGB should know before approaching you?This does not itself authorise photography or recording.

10. Optional Identity-Based Matching

This section is optional. OGB does not infer or use race, ethnicity, or gender for matching from appearance, a profile, a name, or organiser assumptions. Matching use depends on your own information and express permission.

30. May OGB use your gender identity or a gender matching category when a Receiver has specifically asked OGB to consider gender in selecting Givers?YesNoDiscuss with me

30a. If Yes, which gender(s) of Receivers would you like to be considered for as a Giver?MenWomenNon-binary / gender-diverseOtherSelect all that apply. These are your general matching preferences, not consent to participate with any particular person.

30b. If needed, please give us details on your matching preferences:

31. May OGB use your self-described race or ethnicity when a Receiver has specifically asked OGB to consider race or ethnicity in matching?YesNo

31a. If Yes, how do you describe your race or ethnicity for this purpose?

31b. Would you be willing to be approached about race-themed play?NoYesDepends / discuss with me

31c. Would you be willing to be approached about racialised terms or fantasy framing?NoYesDepends / discuss with me

31d. If relevant, describe any race-related preferences, limits, language, or boundaries OGB should know:

11. Additional Information & Acknowledgement

32. Is there anything else about your interests, boundaries, experience, or matching preferences that would help OGB assess or place you appropriately?

33. Please confirm each point: *I understand that this questionnaire records screening information and general profile preferences, not consent to sexual activity.I understand that approval, matching, selection, or invitation does not guarantee sexual participation or access to any person.I understand that every participant remains responsible for obtaining and respecting consent in the moment.I understand that OGB may use my profile to identify potentially compatible event invitations, subject to the matching permissions I have given.I will tell OGB if material profile information, health information, boundaries, or matching preferences change.I understand that event-specific requirements may be narrower than my general profile and that I can accept or decline any invitation.

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Identity, Contact & Application

This application builds your general Receiver Profile for screening and matching. It is not consent to sexual activity or recording, and it is not an event plan. Event-specific choices are handled later in Event Design.

Identity, Contact & Application