Questions for Givers – OGB Parties

Fetlife Handle

Preferred Event Name (if different)

Preferred Gender:

eg: Male, Female, Transgender, Intersex, Genderfluid, 2 Spirit, Polygender…

Age?

Are you a Smoker?

Yes
No
Marijuana Only

Do you use recreational drugs?

Yes
No
Marijuana Only

Including you, how many members are in your group?

Selected Value: 1

1a. Is this your first time being involved in a group experience?

Yes
No

1b. If no, briefly describe your past experience(s):

2. What attracts you to this type of event?

3. How did you hear about us?

4. Do you understand and agree that enthusiastic, verbal, and ongoing consent is required at all times?

Yes
No

Receivers to you

5. Do you agree to immediately stop any activity if someone withdraws consent or says “stop”?

Yes
No

6. Are you comfortable allowing the Receivers to set the pace, terms, and boundaries for all interactions?

Yes
No

7a. Do you agree never to initiate sexual contact without clear, explicit consent?

Yes
No

7b. How do you typically monitor that your partner is actively consenting?

8. Are you currently symptom-free from all STIs, including sores, rashes, and discharge?

Yes
No

9. When was your last full STI screening?

10a. Would you be willing to provide recent STI test results upon request?

Yes
No

10b. Do you want to see proof of STI testing from each participant?

Yes
No

11. Do you agree to use condoms at all times, for all forms of sexual contact, if requested?

Yes
No

12. Do you commit to arriving freshly showered, with clean hands, trimmed nails, and good overall hygiene?

Yes
No

13a. Are you willing to play with smokers?

Yes
No
Marijuana Only

13b. Are you willing to play with recreational drug users?

Yes
No
Marijuana Only

13c. Are you willing to play with moderate drinkers?

Yes
No

14. How would you respond if asked to leave an event due to a complaint or rule violation?

15. Are you open to receiving direction or feedback from the host or the Receiver(s) during the event?

Yes
No

16a. Have you ever been removed or banned from a club, sex party, or group?

Yes
No

16b. If yes, please explain

17. Are you open to the Givers being sexual with each other?

Yes, please!
No, thank you
I’m ok with incidental contact
Contact only for DP/DVP etc.

18. Are you prepared for the possibility that you may not be able to participate in every interaction?

Yes
No

19. Are you able to be naked around other Givers in a respectful, non-competitive environment?

Yes
No

20. What would you do if you saw someone crossing a boundary or making a guest uncomfortable?

21a. Please tell us about your condom preference:

Complete use (oral/vaginal/anal)
Vaginal/anal only
Bareback (if recently tested)
Other

21b. If Other, please describe:

21c. Cock Size

Small
Average
Large
Massive

There is no shame.

22. Are there any acts or situations that are off-limits?

23. What qualities do you believe make someone a good gangbang participant?

24. In one sentence, describe the role you see yourself playing at an event like this:

25. Is there anything else you’d like us to know about your expectations, limits, or personal style?

An Email Address Where We Can Contact You:

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